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Honest dialogue : presence, common sense, and boundaries when you want to help someone /
| Clasificación: | Libro Electrónico |
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| Formato: | Electrónico eBook |
| Idioma: | Inglés |
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Philadelphia, PA :
Jessica Kingsley Publishers,
[2018]
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| Acceso en línea: | Texto completo |
Tabla de Contenidos:
- Introduction
- Technique or attitude
- Crisis
- Anxiety and primary feelings
- Practical guidelines
- It is less complicated than you think
- All essential resources for overcoming a difficulty are in the person having the difficulty, or in the field of interaction between the people in dialogue
- Good help is help towards self-help : all other help is intrusion
- When, as the helper, you don't know what to say or do, that is what you should say or do
- Don't let having a problem turn into a problem in itself
- Boundaries make contact
- You cannot change what you do not accept
- The consolation is that there is no consolation
- The person in distress does not need consolation, but love
- Life is neither fair nor unfair
- Guilt and power are two sides of the same coin
- Forgiveness does not remove guilt : it re-establishes the relationship in spite of the guilt
- And and but: the small words with the biggest effects
- Helping through dialogue: in reality it is possible and not too difficult
- Examples
- The meaning
- Expanding on the concept of meaning
- Possible answers when your old ones don't lead to the kind of contact you want
- Commentary to the "new" answers
- Bibliography.